First date question: "On a scale of 1 to 10, how good are your looting skills?"

First date question: "On a scale of 1 to 10, how good are your looting skills?"

The dreaded first date holds a lot of power and it's time you learn to use it in your favour.

Hoping for a second date expert advice
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Going on a first date can be daunting.

READ: "I just found out that the man I have been dating for 10 months has been in a relationship for 3 years!"

Why? There could be awkward silences, your date might not think you're funny or attractive, or even worse, they could hate animals.

But the scariest part has to be the fact that at the end of the night you might be thinking that everything went well and you'll hear from this person really, really soon. Dare you say it - you might be optimistic!

READ: Age gaps and dating - do you care?

Sometimes you do have to learn that a second date is not always guaranteed.

If you want to get rid of some of the guessing and figure out if a second meeting might be in the cards then there are a few signs you can look out for.

READ: WATCH: Woman exposes boyfriend's hilarious dating app history

You can also take matters into your own hands and ask a question or two that will either be solid dealbreakers or the answers could lead to a match made in heaven.

We all know the questions we're talking about. The answers to these questions have been and always will be the same and they will be very important. And each person has their own that they deem important.

READ: #TheFixer: "I’ve been dating a married woman for 6months and now I think I’m in love with her”

Are you a dog or a cat person?

Have you been vaccinated?

These are the types of questions that you NEED to know the answers to as they will establish whether a relationship should even be considered and pursued.

READ: Dating expert shares important first date money tip for singles

Stacey and J Sbu wanted to do a flash poll and find out from KZN: "What are good first date questions?"

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