WATCH: This is why you don't invite strangers into your house... especially as a young woman
Have you ever been rejected before?
Dating is hard for everyone. The pressure to approach someone, acknowledging that someone may not feel the same way about you, the overwhelming anxiety of possibly being rejected...
But, yes, there is always a preferred way to respond to situations, the most ideal socialised way is to be humble and walk away knowing you tried. However, that's not always the case for many people...
Add in some alcohol and things are bound to get worse - most of the time anyway. So what type of person are you? Do you handle rejection in a humble way, or are you the vengeful type?
Well, these friends went out and decided to invite some people over to their place. A guy tried to make a move on one of the friends and when she rejected him, he could not handle it and he literally went into destruction mode.
WATCH the video below (courtesy of TikTok):
@annamartin35 this is why you should never invite strangers into your home. ESPECIALLY as a young woman. our apartment was trashed over a man getting rejected. so scary
♬ original sound - Anna Martin
One person was trying to make a move on my friend, she wasn’t interested and I spoke to him about consent, um, and then he became very upset and trashed the apartment.
WATCH the video below (courtesy of TikTok):
@annamartin35 update on the man who trashed my apartment bc my friend wouldn’t sleep with him :)
♬ original sound - Anna Martin
The TikToker has reported the case to the police and didn't want to share more than that for legal reasons. But all in all, this was a perfect example on 'how not to deal with rejection'.
But, of course, we cannot pre-empt these things, sometimes people live with each other for years before seeing a side of their partners that is a red flag. So him showing his side of this early, let's just say it was a blessing.
Luckily, the ladies are safe and by sharing this video, perhaps more people will think twice before inviting strangers into their homes.
Image Courtesy of TikTok