PICS: KZN man is convinced his girlfriend is stealing from him
There's a certain level of trust that comes with relationships, but when there's a feeling that the trust is broken, that's when problems and doubt starts to creep in.
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In a relationship, there's a certain level of trust between partners, and sometimes it goes without saying that you tend to trust your partner implicitly, even when it comes to money.
The problem arises when your partner tends to start doing things without telling you - that's when doubt starts to creep in.
There are two types of couples in the world. On one hand, we have those who are open about money and allow their partner to dig into their wallets if they are short of cash. The other is usually about "what's mine is mine so stay out of my wallet".
Read: 'I'm furious because my partner hasn't memorised my cellphone number'
When it comes to the former, although these couples are transparent with each other, it usually involves a spoken request or 'heads up' made when taking cash from your partner's wallet.
One KZN man is convinced that his girlfriend of a year is stealing from him, and doesn't really know how to approach the situation. So he decided to put her to the test, and his worst fears were confirmed.
Listen to the voice note he sent us, or read the details under the podcast:
Here's what his cubby looked like on Friday before he fetched her:
And here's what it looked like on Sunday after he dropped her at home:
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