Signs that you are suffering from psychological trauma

Signs that you are suffering from psychological trauma

Psychological trauma is not always easy to identify. Dr Happy Setsiba, a clinical psychologist, shares a few symptoms of psychological stress. 

Woman suffering from trauma
Woman suffering from trauma / iStock

Psychological trauma is an emotional response to an experience that happened in a person’s life that left him or her feeling stressed.

According to Dr Setsiba, this experience or event makes it difficult for the person to go on. 

Many South Africans have been faced with a lot of challenges that have left them feeling traumatised. 

The clinical psychologist says the pandemic has made things even worse. 

"COVID-19 has made it very difficult for us to understand where we are at psychologically, because we lose our loved ones. We go through multiple traumatic experiences in the form of loss of loved ones [and] unexpected losses,” says Dr Setsiba. 

READ: How to deal with the death of a loved one

She adds that the “violence that is happening around us, accidents, rape cases, and other natural disasters” have also greatly contributed to the high levels of stress that many of us are experiencing. 

READ: Unpacking trauma

How to identify psychological trauma

Dr Setsiba says psychological trauma is not always visible like physical trauma and she says it is very difficult to identify.

The clinical psychologist says that “it is possible to be traumatised over and over and not even realise it.”

She says it is like an injury to the mind. 

What makes it difficult is that sometimes it is brought on by events that happened to other people which you got exposed to. For instance, hearing of bad news on television or social media, or something that happened to people close to you. 

“Just like physical trauma, you feel like you bleed inside because there has been some injury that has been inflicted on your psychological, mental, and emotional functioning. 

“You have what we call an emotional wound,” says the expert. 

READ: "I'm sorry I sound emotional, because I am..."- Deidre Naidoo, Trauma Specialised Nurse

Another way to realise if you are suffering from psychological trauma is to check how your life has been affected after the traumatic experience you had. 

“After being exposed to that experience, it may be very difficult for you to cope because you realise that whatever that you have witnessed has affected you - has affected the way you think, has affected the way you feel,” says Dr Setsiba. 

Moving forward

Dr Setsiba says it is important for wounds to heal.

One of the tools that can be used to heal from the trauma is to open up about the feelings. 

“The more we share, the more we realise that we are not alone,” says the clinical psychologist. 

She adds that many people who suffer from psychological trauma blame themselves. 

“The events leave you with a lot of guilt, anger, and intense regret,” she says.

But she says it is important to understand that “the exposure and incidents are uncontrollable, they are unplanned.”

Lastly, it is important to take your mental health seriously and to seek professional help to assist you to better cope with psychological trauma.

READ: Dealing with the death of a loved one due to COVID-19

The following organisations help people who are dealing with trauma. 

The Trauma Centre 

Tears Foundation

Families South Africa (Famsa)

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