"I want to terminate my pregnancy without consulting my partner of three years" - KZN listener

"I want to terminate my pregnancy without consulting my partner of three years" - KZN listener

Today’s story is one that was shared with us in trust, because it's sensitive. A mother-to-be wants to have an abortion without involving her trusted partner of three years. It's a scenario that sounds so easy to get around but it's trickier than it seems because everyone has a right to choose what they want for themselves and their body.

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The Fixer, which we do every Wednesday, is all about real-life stories and you, KZN, are needed to help us navigate the scenarios and problems presented to us. 

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Today the story we are sharing is very sensitive, so we had to protect the individual's identity- so the person who voiced the story is not the actual person. For purposes of the conversation, we will refer to her as 'Gugu'. 

This KZN listener wrote to Stacey and J Sbu seeking advice. She is contemplating terminating her pregnancy without consulting her partner of three years.

Listen to the podcast below to hear what 'Gugu' has to say:

It's not every day you have to make a decision of life or death, especially when the decision lies in your hands. 

Some might say she is being unfair or immoral, but who are we to judge? And who actually has the final say when it comes abortion?

Share your advice with her by offering comments on how she can navigate the situation in the comments section below: 

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