Parenting 101: 14 September 2012

Jenni Johnson, our resident ‘Baby Whisperer’, has been a practicing child-care practitioner for 15 years, and owns a busy ante and post natal clinic in Durban. This week she talks about choices and rewards, among other things.

* Having a hard time with a headstrong toddler? For children older than 2, correct one behaviour at a time and reward good behaviour with a sticker for a reward chart. Decide together on special treats, for example a visit to the park, and when your child has collected 20 stickers a reward can be chosen.

* When your children ask a question always tell the truth. Long winded answers are also not necessary - and simple replies will encourage your child to ask another one. When you don't know the answer, tell them that you will find out and let them know. Follow through with what you say.  

* Two year olds like to be given clear uncomplicated choices. “Would you like water or milk to drink?” If the reply is: “I want juice” you can say, “that's not the choice today, let me know when you've decided” and walk away. They'll soon catch on.

* Sweet biscuits are not a food group therefore it is not necessary to include them in your child's lunch box as part of a meal. Rather ensure that there is a small protein, carbohydrate and fruit or vegetable. A brown bread cheese sandwich and a few strawberries is an example.

* From a year onwards your child will be happier eating smaller meals 4-5 times a day. The size of the plate shouldn’t be much bigger than the size of your child’s hand. He or she will generally not want to eat more than this and your child is correct.  

* Catch Jenni on-air every day just after 10am with her tip of the day.

At Jenni’s ante and post natal clinic in Durban, parents are taught a system that gives them structure and routine to the baby and childhood years. Jenni has a nursing background. She’s a registered nurse, midwife, psychiatric nurse and private nurse practitioner.

Jenni’s online clinic, can be accessed online via www.jennisays.com. For appointments, e-mail [email protected]. Follow her on Twitter via @JenniSays or on Facebook by 'liking' The Berea Baby Clinic.