A powerful message written to High school girls
Updated | By Jane Linley-Thomas
This message will remind you to not fast forward your life but rather to stop and enjoy every minute of it!
I wish someone had drummed this message into my head while in high school.
All I wanted to do was be older. There was a thrill in the event that I passed for looking old enough to get into a club.
I just wanted to leave school, learn to drive...be an adult. Now that I am one and a few years off 40 I wonder how in the blink of an eye how my life blurred past with such pace.
What I'd give to be carefree again and this time know it.
Even my 3-year-old is on the mission to be 4-years-old.
Stop. There. Is. No .rush.
Read this very powerful message written by Christina Petrovski:
Dear young, high school girl,
I know you probably feel so grown up. All you want to do is look older, be able to nail that contour and smokey eye, and try finding a fake id. But please slow down. Live out your innocence and childhood as long as you can. None of the guys around you right now in high school care about you. They only want one thing from you. I promise. I watched it happen to most of my friends in those four years. I’m blessed to have avoided that type of emotional attachment at that age. Stop partying, stop the drama, stop not caring about your grades and bragging about it. Don’t be an ass to that nerdy guy, because I guarantee you will be running after him after he is accepted into Detroit Mercy Dental School and that hot guy throwing bush parties right now is still trying to land a part time job at 25. You don’t realize how important it is to smarten up at your age and actually focus in school. What you do now defines your whole life. I wish I could go back and change how I handled situations and my naivety. Don’t put yourself in situations that will affect your mind set for the rest of your life. Be true to yourself, stay close with your parents and the rest of your family. You don’t know how long you have with them. I look back on some of my partying nights and wish I had stayed home with my dad watching documentaries instead; he would have kept me safe and kept me from being a puking drunk mess that night. You are 15, not 23. Stop trying to look and act that age when you are no where near finishing an undergrad and in a serious relationship that may become more any day now. Skip the makeup, heart breaks and serious decision making for as long as you can.
A 22 year who wishes she was 15 again❤
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