"My friend just started dating a woman who has a six-year-old and I advised against it!" - Bongani
Updated | By East Coast Drive
People fall in love all the time and it's usually unexpected. But what happens when the person you are dating has a child and now you realise that you are not up for it?

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On Monday, Bongani spoke to the Drive team about a touchy dating subject.
Read: #AskStacey: Is dating my dead ex's sibling wrong?
"I have a friend who has just started dating a woman and he is falling for her and it is getting serious, but she has a six-year-old child and I have just advised him to leave her," Bongani said.
KZN had a lot to say about this subject. Most felt that Bongani was being too harsh and sometimes you don't choose who you fall in love with.
Listen to the podcast to hear what KZN had to say.
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