Do you have abandonment issues from your childhood?
Did you feel abandoned growing up? Do you feel your parents may have been too busy for you?
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Bongani has slowly come to the realisation that he is the busy parent - he wakes up at dawn to go run, only to return home after the kids have already left for school. Then runs around like a headless chicken MC'ing, being on air, and in the evenings DJ'ing only to arrive at home when the children are fast asleep.
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He feels he often goes weeks without seeing his children, and it's hit home that this is similar to his upbringing, where he would hardly see his parents.
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As an adult now looking back, did you ever feel abandoned by your mom or dad because they may have been too busy for you?
Do you understand it now?