Would you ever let your friend date your ex?
Never one to shy away from being upfront and honest, Thandolwethu says it like it is when her friends ask to date her exes.
First off, when it comes to exes, it’s an ex, which means that it’s second-hand material. Why would I even care about something I’ve dated and had enough of? You don’t ever go back and drink red Sambuca after you woke up one morning and threw-up red, do you? No, it’s over, it’s gone, why would I care?
Even if it is a close friend that’s after an ex, why would that bother me? She knows what worked and what didn’t. If she thinks she can clean this man up, then that’s up to her.
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I know that most people aren’t comfortable with this and that’s also okay. I can see why it would hurt you seeing your mate hook up with your ex. But to me, that just shows you’re probably not over them.
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