Should husbands be allowed on weekly boys' night out?
Ladies, are you the type that gets mad when your hubby wants to go out or are you cool with it? We put the question out to KZN women and here's what you had to say...
Ladies, I wanna to ask you something. If your husband wanted to go out with the boys once a week, would you be happy with that, I mean really happy not just lip service and then you text him every 5 minutes and watch the clock?
The reason I ask is that last week I was at a function and I was talking amongst the girls there and one of them said she never allows her man out the house without her. She justified this by saying that he drinks too much and flirts with other women when she's not there.
My first thought was I am so grateful Mike doesn't push to go drinking with the boys, and if he does, it's a beer or two and he's home. I have never denied him 'boys time' but he on his own accord is much happier cracking a bottle of wine at home.
Read: “My husband is abusive but I can’t leave”
I would hate to be caught between a guy and his guy time and then for it to end in over drinking and flirting, so not cool. Maybe he's acting out because she keeps him under lock and key, and in saying that if your husband acted like that, wouldn't you also be paranoid?
Ladies, what do you do in this situation? Are you the type that doesn’t allow your hubby out or do you just let him get on with it?
Here's what some of the KZN listeners had to say about it...