Jane's three signs that you're in a one-sided friendship
Friendships are usually a give-and-take type of situation, but when one friend gives and gets nothing in return, that's a sign the friendship is headed for disaster.
Listen as KZN shares their one-sided friendship stories, or read the details under the podcast.
Being in a one-sided friendship sucks.
I have been in a one-sided friendship before. It's exhausting, frustrating, and sometimes hurtful - the constant output with no input is awful.
Read - KZN woman: "My best friend made me quit a friendship with another friend"
So, in a bid to help you, I have put together my list of three signs that your friend may have moved on:
- The only time you connect is when you instigate it - You're always the one who reaches out and attempts to make a connection. If you didn't reach out in the first place, nothing would have happened.
- They only surface when they need something - If you haven't heard from them in months, and you only hear from them when they need to borrow cash or need a lift to the airport, there is trouble brewing.
- The excuses are thick and fast around poor communication - The "Sorry work/life has been hectic, hey" excuse can only last for a short while. After that, you just become so used to it.
Are you currently in a one-sided friendship? What are the tell-tale signs you've noticed? Share them with me below.