Three-decade age gap and this couple couldn't be happier!

Three-decade age gap and this couple couldn't be happier!

This Durban couple with a 29-year age gap should serve as inspiration that you can love whomever you choose, especially if they make you happy.

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Listen as KZN share their views on the topic in the podcast, then read more below: 

I love stories of love! I came across an article about a couple who have a nearly 30-year age difference between them and this piqued my interest. The article just gave me such joy to read about two people who are simply in love. 

Read: When siblings take the fall out of love

Carly Schäper is a 23-year-old latin dancer from Durban and she is married to 52-year-old mechanical engineer Graeme Eksteen. It would be easy to pass judgment, but as the couple spoke to W24, it came across that they were just a 'normal' couple that is happy, respectful of each other, and also has disagreements - like any of us in relationships!

I mean, Harrison Ford and Calista Flockhart have a 22-year age gap, they have been married for a number of years now, and have children. So how is this couple any different?

Read: #WeddingGoals: This bridal couple's dance-off is epic!

People are often amazed to hear I am 38, especially when looking at me with my bright lips, a flash of blue in my hair, and a dress sense that most would never attempt. I am reminded that society has preconceived ideas of what a mom of three should look like. 

I think the same goes for this couple. Sure, it's a little unconventional that her husband is older than her dad, but you can see how happy they are just by looking at their pictures.

You 💕 @graeme_eksteen

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I want to put this out there to you, KZN - are you in a relationship that has defied the odds? Are you in a relationship where the age gap is above what is perceived as “normal?” Are you in a relationship that on paper shouldn’t have worked? I’d love for you to share your stories with me!

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