"I have a secret which could break up my best friend's relationship"
Updated | By East Coast Radio
To speak up or ignore the truth - that is the question that this woman is facing, and has found herself having to make a tough decision about potentially ruining her best friend's relationship.
Listen as KZN gives advice to this woman about her dilemma, or read the details under the podcast:
If you have a best friend, you have the moral duty to go out of your way to show respect to them and have their back. It's a basic rule. But at times, in certain situations, you find yourself having to think twice about speaking up - especially if it can emotionally break your friend to pieces.
This is what a listener is currently going through. She has found herself divided down the middle about revealing something about her friend's boyfriend Ayanda* which could potentially break their relationship.
READ: "I have a weird feeling about my best friend's boyfriend that I can't shake off"
But should she get involved? Things could get messy...
Here's the message she sent to us:
Hi Damon. Help, please! My best friend of 20 years, who is like my sister, is dating a guy for about 6 months. Things seem steady - oh at least I thought . He has become a good acquaintance and didn’t seem like a bad guy. This past weekend I saw him at a restaurant with another woman, in the VIP section of the lounge/restaurant. I texted him immediately to fake check up on him, and he lied about his whereabouts - said he’s home with the flu. I have the screenshots to prove that he blatantly lied to me. I love my best friend but do I get involved here or stay out of it? I owe it to my bestie, right?- Anonymous
Take a look at the screenshot of the messages in which she asks Ayanda* about his whereabouts:
The question here is - does she get involved by exposing these messages and revealing the truth to her best friend, or should she stay out of it. Is it really none of her business?
What are your thoughts?
*Ayanda is not his real name
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