Sex after a break-up is it cheating

Sex after a break-up is it cheating

On East Coast Urban’s regular feature, WTF with Bongani Mtolo a listener emailed in that he felt hurt and “cheated on” when he found out that his girlfriend had slept with someone whilst they were on a break.

I am against cheating no matter how the situation panned out or how damaged the relationship is. But the email we received got me thinking, if you’re on a break is it cheating? I can understand how you might feel hurt and how your ego may take a hit but technically speaking you and your partner weren't dating, so it can’t be cheating? Surely?

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Our email came through like this; “WTF - Bongani, my girlfriend and I broke up and a week later she slept with someone else and she didn't tell me. We got back together and I found out, but she says it's not cheating, but I feel like it is. Do I leave her?”

Take a listen to what happened on air.

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